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What’s the best way to get over someone you love?

13.06.2025 23:49

What’s the best way to get over someone you love?

Because the one you cared for doesn’t care for you?

If you're the type of all second cases, then, acceptance is still a must but,

Or you just over-cared expecting the same in return but are now disappointed?

I caught my husband of 20 years looking at inappropriate pics of women on TikTok or Instagram. I'm not sure., but when I told him he got mad and made excuses of why they popped up. I then told him how I've snuck on his phone and saw what he's been looking at . We had a horrible big fight. I asked him why did he even marry me when I see the type he likes . Nothing like me, I'm petite, blonde and blue eyes. These women are dark haired dark eyed and have curvy bodies, large breasts, etc. I just don't feel the same about him after this. I can't get over this

You need to start treating people like people, not achievements.

Although if you're just a stubborn egoistic obsessed insecure immature teenager, grow up. Understand that you just feel that you can shift the orbit of the universe if you get your dream girl, BUT YOU CAN'T.

If you do remember them occasionally and feel like crying, don't resist, cry, it'll gradually reduce on its own.

Why cant school buses ditch kids who are late to the bus at the school? Like on the way home, if a kid is late when all the others arrived to the bus on time, why cant they leave the late kid behind since its not fair to the on time kids to wait?

You're an obsessed/insecure/desperate simp/immature, depending on actions you did.

Because you were just unlucky in love?

~KSR

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Focus on other things, and people, stay busy, stay lively, work, make goals, have hobbies, have friends and relax.

Stop fawning at others and work more on yourself, understand that getting that one person isn't the only thing.

Because it hurts that they are not with you?

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Or because you had created a random perfect image of them and they just broke your delusion?

Because they aren’t what they showed themselves to be?

But do make sure you aren't only lost in their thoughts, cry but only when it’s been too much.

How do you emotionally react to when others seem to feel sorry for you?

You want to forget him/her completely. But ever thought why? And what do you mean by getting over?

I love getting tired of loving that someone though…

If you relate to all the first cases you need to, above all, accept, that they are not gonna either stay with you, and nor are they ginna get away from your past.

Are narcissists happy people generally?

Or are you just jealous and he/she hurt your ego by rejecting you?

Now, while it may not be just a ‘she’ it might also be a ‘he’. What’s more important to know, is that, you can’t exactly delete someone from your head. Infact forcing.

Because you are in sorrow without them?

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Or because they’re happy without you.

Or because she doesn’t love you back?

It's as harmful and futile to try to force forget, as much as it is to try to force get someone.

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Because only you LOVED?

True love, if one sided, does hurt and we want to forget or get over people, just keep going on with life, keep living and you'll get over it.

Or because it hurts because they are with someone else?

Hi, I’m Jo. My best friend died 2 years ago today. My husband died 6 months later. So, I’m a depressed mess (we were married 28 years) and can’t shake it. Even my Brother is worried. Some days I don’t do anything, and avoid men cause I don’t want to date. Any suggestions? Thanks for reading.